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Before You Say I Do Again: Guest Post and Giveaway!

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Why I decided to write the book:
Learning from the mistakes of a failed first marriage and telling yourself you will do better the next time around is like saying if you lost a football game you’ll win the next one.  You will but only if you learn some new plays before you go back on the field.  As an attorney, I have seen all the warning signs and “BEFORE YOU SAY I DO, AGAIN!” teaches those new plays to avoid coming up on the losing side again.
When you married the first time, you thought you knew everything there was to know about that person.  Unfortunately, being through a failed marriage, you have also learned that there were a lot of things you did not know before you said I do.    And even though you are now older and wiser does not guarantee that you will not make the same mistakes again.  That’s why I wrote this book.
Having practiced law for more than 30 years, I have seen hundreds of cases concerning all issues of family law.  And a very significant number of those cases   involved second marriages.  During the initial consultation, clients often feel this is the time to vent about their soon to be Ex.  They also take a retrospective look at themselves and candidly discuss the mistakes they made.   In preparation for this book, I have chronicled this information as well conducted countless interviews with former clients. And with stories retold from clients of their experiences, and with a sprinkling of humor added to keep your sanity, BEFORE YOU SAY I DO AGAIN!  will alert you to the obvious and not so obvious warning signs that are often ignored along the path of remarriage. It will also explain why character wins out over personality and illustrates how compatibility may be even more sensuous than chemistry.

GIVEAWAY:  Please leave a comment with your email address for a chance to win this helpful book!  This giveaway is open to USA/CAN residents. 


  1. Thanks again for taking part in the tour and hosting Ben!

  1. momma8385 said...:

    Sound like a great read. Thanks for the review.
    :)Jeanne B.T.

  1. Unknown said...:

    Being divorced, this might come in handy someday...

    unforgetable_dreamer_always (at) hotmail (dot) com

  1. Chelsea B. said...:

    Sounds like a read that could help a lot of people out.

  1. Renee G said...:

    would love to read this.

  1. bn100 said...:

    This sounds like a helpful read.


  1. Anonymous said...:

    Adore the cover, sounds like the type of book I wont be able to put down! Thanks for the giveway, and the review. I should go add it to my TBR!

  1. Diana said...:

    Thanks for the post! :)

  1. Diana said...:

    Thanks for the share! :)